Introduction
Prostitution, the oldest profession on earth is not something which the Indian society today looks up to. In the realms of history we have had prostitutes who enjoyed celebrity hood. The law, indignantly, is bent oncurbing the profession but has been unsuccessful so far. The truth that the elimination of prostitution is not possible was even recognized by the Supreme Court of India in month of December, 2009. The court had also pointed out that nowhere else in the world prostitution is dealt with by punitive measures. The laws governing prostitution in our country are proving to be detrimental to the interest of women instead of relieving them from the clutches of traffickers, middlemen, local police, brothel owners etc.
The only way to guarantee a better life to prostitutes is legalization and regularization of the industry. Though there is denial of the fact that such progressive step is not a cake walk for the government considering the traditional mindset and moral benchmarks of Indian society. But keeping in mind the higher interest, and to avoid the undesirable consequences, government has to initiate such a regulation with a stance that prostitution is not morally heinous and it cannot be abolished
Tracing the History
In the ancient time there was a practice of having Nagarvadhu meaning bride of the city/town (An example being the very famous nagarvadhu ‘Amrapali’ from the city of Vaishali ). Also, there were Devdasis (the ‘slave of the deity’); they can be better understood as temple prostitutes.
During 16th and the 17th centuries Goa (the then Portuguese colony in India) had a considerable number of young Japanese women captured as sex slaves by Portuguese traders.
During 18th and early 19th Centuries (During the rule of East India Company) it was a common practice among British and Indian soldiers to visit ‘Nautch’ (Nach) Dancers.
During the late 19th and early 20th centuries thousands of white women from continental Europe were trafficked to India for purposes of prostitution to serve the British and the local Indian men (According to a paper published in the ‘Indian Economic and Social History Review’).
Present legal status of Prostitution in India
The Law governing prostitution in India is Immoral Traffic (Prevention) Act which is a 1986 amendment to the primary law passed in 1950 {known as the Immoral Traffic (Suppression) Act}. The law does not criminalize prostitution per se but only organized form of prostitution is against the law. If a woman uses attributes of her body voluntarily and individually she goes unpunished. But the law prohibits/criminalize-
- Seduction/solicitation of customer
- Prostitution anywhere near a public place
- Publication of phone number of call girls
- Organized form of prostitution i.e. a brothel, pimps, Prostitution rings etc.
- A sex worker being below 18 years of age
- Procurement and trafficking of women
We can conclude that if a prostitute works for self and uses her own premises for entertaining clients she is conducting herself lawfully! But then why do we often see video footage on T.V. where a sex worker and her client are being herded into the police jeep? Here comes the shady picture of police who might not book the sex worker and her client under the above mentioned act, they do it under provisions like public indecency, public nuisance etc. of the Indian Penal Code.
Male prostitution is not recognized in the law though it is quite prevalent.
Reasons for legalisation and regulation of Prostitution-
- HIV/AIDS among prostitutes has emerged as a huge cause of concern. According to a WHO report of 2001, it is estimated that 50% of prostitutes in Mumbai (the city being hub to the largest number of prostitutes in the country) are HIV positive! They contract the virus from their infected customers and in all probability communicate it to other healthy customers. One can easily imagine the havoc unregulated prostitution can cause! If legalized and regulated, awareness programs teaching the prostitutes the importance of protected sex and frequent health checkups can be organized.
- Legalizing prostitution shall be a primary channel to vent out the sexual energies of men who otherwise content themselves by means of rape and other sexual violations of women in their vicinity.
- Regulated prostitution shall put a check upon the brutal trafficking of girls where they are trafficked without their consent and are forced to serve the clients. They are compelled to survive in poor living conditions and even basic and essential rights such as right to education, right to freedom, right to form association, right against exploitation etc. are denied to them. Legalization shall mean access to these rights.
- In India a prostitute is shunned, excommunicated and looked down upon with contempt by the society. She never really gets a chance to join the mainstream and live with dignity. Human rights are supposed to bring every human being dignity, but women who trade their bodies are far from enjoying a dignified life. If the government legalizes the profession, gradually the outlook of society, who considers prostitution a despicable occupation, may change. Also, the women in such trade will be given a place in the closely knit Indian society.
- The middlemen or ‘Dalaals’ who procure and sell girls for purposes of prostitution are a menace. They sell women like chattels in lieu of commission. Legalization and regulation by government shall mean abolition of the undesirable figure of middlemen.
- Prostitutes are highly dependent on police for uninterrupted continuance of their activities. Policemen extort money from brothels and prostitutes to let them work in peace. Any prostitute who refuses the bribe is caught ‘red handed’ and put behind bars for charges like public indecency, public nuisance etc under IPC. Due to such acts of police these women have to face monetary exploitation also. If prostitution is legalized and regulated such exploitation shall come to end.
- Due to no effective legislation to curb child trafficking. If prostitution is legalized, brothels indulging in child prostitution could be penalized.This shall put a check a child trafficking and prostitution.
- Children of prostitutes cannot expect of a better life. Due to poor life conditions they are bound to enter in the same trade. Regulation of prostitution shall promise a better life for such children.
- Present Labour laws do not extend to prostitutes. Though rehabilitation facilities can be made available by the government. If the profession gains a legal status the Labour laws could be extended to prostitutes who are working with brothels.
What does Regulation imply?
- Proper registration of prostitutes.
- Brothels shall require license to run the business.
- Brothels could hire prostitutes and prostitutes would be able to associate themselves with brothel of their choice.
- Prostitutes may organize trade unions.
- They would have to undergo health checkups mandatorily on regular basis.
- The money they make would be taxable.
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Anirudh Sanyal
1 year ago
actually a very thoughtful topic. a few days earlier my wandering mind pondered this topic " should prostitution, drugs(atleast the commonly used ones) be legalized in india". but this may end up bad, say increase trafficking or forcefull prostitution but on the other hand this may also bring down the counts of rape and other crimes. could same be said for drugs??? atleast in india.. where drugs like marijuana or say bhaang can never be fully prohibited as they have been related to the indian culture. would legalizing these may actually reduce drug trafficking?
anyways … nicely written!!
Nikita Anand
1 year ago
Yes, Something similar (legalization and regulation) can be said about drugs also. In India the sale of Bhaang is regulated (Can only be sold by Government authorized shops.)
Consider the example of Holland where soft drugs are sold to public through cafes! But I believe we need to give our country some 20-30 years and then demand legalization of drugs. The side effects of drugs cannot be over ruled easily. Drugs might lead to decrease in productivity on the account of being 'High'.
Rachana Panthari
1 year ago
Very nicely written…
The government does have a legitimate role to play in the prostitution market. As with all markets, it should ensure that all exchanges are truly voluntary. In short, it should protect the right not to be coerced. Currently, since prostitution is illegal most prostitutes are in a "no-man's-land" as far as physical protection is concerned. They are often beaten and brutalized, with no real legal recourse. They should have the same right to police protection and to legal recourse as all of us.
Nikita Anand
1 year ago
Well said Rachana! It seems as if the prostitutes are not even considered human!
KNN
1 year ago
insightful article, but in general ne progressive step towards abolition of ne social evil needs education more than a legislation…
*education not only by text but also by spirit.
Nikita Anand
1 year ago
Yes, Reform can only be brought about when spirited citizens come forward and educate others about what they are fighting for.
Monika
1 year ago
Just to add to this wonderful article.. even if prostitutes are raped and brutally beaten during the course of their jobs,no FIR is written on their complaint,due to lack of required legislation in this field!!
Udit
1 year ago
Impressive Nikita. Applaudable work
One thing that I felt is debatable is as follows::
Yes you did mention about the cultural part but the bug thaat comes to my mind is Infidelity and Extra-Marital sex which can pose a threat to the Institution of Marrige. Yes, by means of regulation we can regulate and forbid married men to practice but if in the case of un-married men too, there exists societal pressures. Just for instance, if I enjoy such sex, which is exposed as it is legal, it will bring upon me a social hammer too which comes with Negative isolation as well.
If brothels open up wherein we have male prostitutes, ignoring the homosexuality, both of us know the social stigma on the female visitor with regard to her character is bound to arise.
Taken in the case of Pornography which regardless of its legality in some nations remains a secret with no social offensiveness in the society and thereby no immediate negatives.
siddharth nayak
1 year ago
wonderful article ..i must say..well thought of and well written..and regarding the taxation part a survey by bachpan bachao ngo estimate the industry to worth at around 2500 crores…
Nikita
1 year ago
Siddharth, I am really glad that you appreciate. The financial magnitude which you mentioned is indeed staggering. The Government is sure to gain. But prostitution should be developed/promoted as a profession(in every/true sense of the term) otherwise it might give birth to host of other issues.
Rakesh
1 year ago
Very well thought Nikita. I am thinking if govt can allot a small street/buildings in every station to the brothels/pros. like SEZ. But won't you think that even after legalizing it will be controlled by Mafia's/Don's or Ministers as like Builder-lobbies at present.
Nikita Anand
1 year ago
Yes Rakesh.. You may be very right in that regard. But What I feel is that.. Who controls it not the matter of concern (though it may be a concern on a later stage.) rather.. decent, dignified and healthy standard of life of the Sex workers is the priority.
Ruchita
1 year ago
Hi Nikita,
This is the first artcle which I read frm ur blog…aldo I liked ur thought but I am not agree wid this..coz I dont feel after legalizing it u can change the level of work..I know its not a crime..bt its not a very nice work also..trading their bodies doesnot make them marketers…I support ur thought tht these workers shud get a better life..But i really dont think ki legalization is a solution for this…!!!
Nikita Anand
1 year ago
Legalization alone might have disastrous consequences. Regulation is the key!
vaishnavi narayeni
1 year ago
Hi Nikita
your article is excellent…. I really liked it…. Majority of them forced into this profession and moreover they don't have proper medical facility, at least by legalizing prostitution they can get proper medical facilities….rate of trafficking will reduce as it is a shame that our country is destination for women and child trafficked in south asia
Nikita Anand
1 year ago
Very aptly put Vaishnavi. I totally agree.
sajjad inamdar
1 year ago
Hi Nikita,
The Article begins with a Question mark as if it is a necessity for prostitution to be legalized, and there can be no thoughts about banning it.
The necessity is not to legalize, but the necessity is to eradicate it.
“Oldest profession” – Very surprisingly this term is used time and time again for prostitution especially involving females.
Seems to be a sort of brainwashing people so that they don’t even think about stopping this profession as it’s the “OLDEST”.
History is proof that man has never learnt from History as they say, so regardless of the fact that prostitution was prevalent in the old customs and traditions, it does not justify us continuing the same tradition, but to abort it would be a modern vision which is for the betterment of the society, so when we leave old technology, old customs and traditions then why do we stick to this one, just for the sake of the huge amount of money involved in it?
To cite an example as its legalized in Germany where recently some years ago there was a 2 hour waiting line for someone to get a female (of course not for free but there is price tag) during a world cup , do we want to continue the same imitation in India?
Will India be a developed and successful nation only when it makes itself compatible with the standards of the other so called developed nations worldwide?
WE NEED TO SET AN EXAMPLE FOR OTHERS RATHER THAN IMITATION
I am confident that we can do it provided we have the true intention.
The laws are always played with, consider advertising alcohol which is banned in India, so they advertise alcohol but using a secondary product which they manufacture, for e.g. King Fisher Mineral water…
Almost all who know Vijay Mallya, they know him for Beer” Beer King” They call him.
This all seems to run with the guidance of those law makers who know how to achieve our objective out of a particular law which has been implemented.
If they truly cared about banning alcohol, the other feasible option could have been , banning any product that the company dealing in Alcohol manufactures with the same logo which does not resemble the one used for advertising alcohol , but will they do it ? No as this won’t go down the throat of the law makers, everyone knows it.
So the question is how to stop or deal with the problem of prostitution?
Experts in medicine will always treat the root cause, rather than getting rid of the disease temporarily.
We all know the demand and supply rule right?
So if the demand exist the supply would be there , but if the demand is stopped , the supply will stop eventually , it may sound as being compared to a product , and that is what prostitution makes a women / man, a product a commodity for personal sexual satisfaction.
So if you want a high quality beautiful product you have to pay more, if you want local you will be charged less.
If this is making women or men a commodity, what else?
Therefore making women or men a sexual commodity should be banned in the first place.
It is such an evident hypocrisy on our part that we don’t want our own daughters to be prostitutes but we want someone else’s to be, just because they have been born in the “relevant” circumstances.
I have personally asked many friends young and old, whether you would like to see your daughter as a prostitute or your son to be a “male prostitute”.
The only response I got was, HOW DARE YOU ASK ME THAT QUESTION? and then one of the same individuals a female told me that she wanted prostitution to be legalized because ” they really work hard ” and ” I really feel bad for them ” when asking her would she ever want her daughter to be a prostitute , the quick answer was , NO.
So the point which I want to emphasize here is
” You can’t be a good human being / a good believer in GOD / a Good person who is concerned for the society till the time you think about others in the same way you think about your own selves ” otherwise individualism and materialism does not work good for the society.
Therefore, we know the conscience of people says that prostitution is bad, but we should work on eradicating the root cause, and not on legalizing it, if we legalize we should not be afraid of one of the outcomes that does happen today of men being unfaithful or men enjoying themselves or having extramarital affairs, the same goes for women too.
We should be aware of the consequences of what we make permissible for the society and impermissible as well.
Thinking about legalizing prostitution, there can be no fight on the basis of morality, because what is immoral for someone seems to be a way of life a way of earning bread and butter for the other.
Some are prostitutes because they are poor and because of the circumstances , but the others do the same act that these poor people do but they are glorified , what about those in the film industry who give themselves up for growth , isn’t that a glorified prostitution too?
And I don’t want to limit this to the film industry but extend it to every way of life where the bodies of men and women are traded and used for satisfaction of lust.
” No Society can be termed as a GOOD society them where humans are made products regardless of how developed the world considers a particular society.”
Work on Ending the Demand and the Supply will End Eventually.
Thanks for the post Nikita.
sahil
8 months ago
Rightly said sajjad. i agree with you.
This Article lacks farsightedness.
Adarsh Amol
1 year ago
hello! the kind of research you have did for this matter is highly appreciable, your suggestions to legalisation of prostutes are very realistic and government can consider about it.
Nikita Anand
1 year ago
I am happy that you appreciate Adarsh. Thank you.
Sajjad
1 year ago
Hi Nikita,
It such an evident hypocrisy on part of those people who want to legalize prostitution , when they can’t think about their own selves in that state.
Our Goal should be to work for humanity where everyone has the same rights and not the case where one is having pleasure at the same time the other has to sell his or her body , his soul and then , is brainwashed to think that its just a normal thing or personal choice or “freedom” and its just in the mind , so nothing remains bad to be condemned , but everything is just a perception which people have , truly this is humanity headed in the wrong direction.
Also Nikita,
With regards to what you have said above that “Male prostitution is not recognized in the law though it is quite prevalent.”
This is nothing but an example of the flaws in the laws which come from a male dominated mindset , where when a mad does it he is called as a STUD and when a woman does it she is referred to as a BIT*H.
I totally believe that if condemnation has to be there then the act has to be condemned regardless of sex.
Our Goals should be high, such that they cure the root cause and not temporary solutions , this leads to more complexities in the problem and there is no solution just problem upon problem.
Let us have the courage today to at least say NO to prostitution.
Sudipta Ranjan
10 months ago
Dear Nikita, Well written and well thought of. But I had certain question?
1. Can a girl adopt this professsion willfully or there are certain reasons behind? It may be poverty, force, immorality, circumstances, oppression etc.
2. If legalized, we are making human being an object. Which can be purchased. Is it right?
3. Do you think legalizing will stop women trafficking? Will the women get their dignity back? Never. Can a family think of bringing a prostitute as a bride ever?
4. I think, though it be legalized, it will just be a wrapper over a huge injury which is not healed.
5. Let us (including govt) help those women to come back to the main stream, leaving their old job, give them education and training and help them to do a job which satisfies them. A prostitute will never be happy by doing the act which deals not only her body, but her inner being which she has choosen due to certain reason.
Let us give them their life.
Nikita Anand
10 months ago
Dear Sudipta,
1. Yes, I agree that there are certain reasons behind adopting this profession.
2. If legalized it won’t imply that the person becomes an object rather it means that the services can be purchased.
3. Speaking of dignity.. it will take time to change the rigid mind set of people. But we were successful in doing it when it came to widow remarriage right? Similarly, It may take decades to dignify the profession but a time will come when they will join the mainstream.
4. When an injury is not being healed naturally one needs to apply some ointment. Here, regulating the profession is the ointment.
5. I agree with you that efforts can be made for those who wish to leave that profession.. but for those who don’t want to.. legalization and regulation is the solution.
rashmi shukla
9 months ago
hey nikita,
i must say your article is very nice the points you have came up with are appreciable , even though there are some points to argue upon like why not total ban on it?
but to be realistic i don’t think it’s possible to put a total ban on these kind of activities…
so if not to the totally white side why not take a grey area and at least provide these women with every basic need a person is in need of and let them have a life of dignity…
but yeah i think government should make sure that no women is entering the profession forcefully as one of the writer said that there are various other reasons like poverty , i would say lets not get orthodox and think like this , what if the women wants to earn some easy money and take her life in a better direction (which is not possible in the present scenario) then who are we to say that it’s not right every major person has the right to choose what they want to do or what they don’t want to so we are just trying to make sure that no one has to do something like this forcefully and those who want to do it should get a life like a normal citizen.
and once again nikita commendable article
Sonu
9 months ago
Hi Nikita,
Very nicely written and quite articulate on your points. Let me tell you my personal experience. I live in Pune, I just picked up Times of India and saw escort services advertisement. I just picked up my phone and called them one by one. me:”ladki chahiye” He: “Milegi sir” , Me: “full night ke liye chahiye”, He: “bilkul sir, ho jayega koi prob nahi”..Me: “rate kitne se shuru hai” He:”15,000 model ka, 12,000 air hostess ka, 8,000 college girls ka” Me:”dekhne ke liye kaha aa sakta hoon” and he told me the address of HOtels where I go to once in a month to enjoy myself a good meal. This is prostitution and So much organized.
But without registration, what they are loosing is dignity. I truly agree with you. The prostitution must be legal. I konw that out of 15,000 only 3 4 thousand goes to the poor girl which is very unfair and she would never be able to have enough money to get out of all this.
Nikita Anand
9 months ago
Sir, I am astounded. Writing the article was one thing and but getting to know ground reality is very different. I never imagined that the organization of prostitution could be that efficient. If it is legalized those poor girls will be able to demand their own hard earned money. They will be able to operate independently without being exploited by middlemen.
karthik
9 months ago
hi nikita,
first i would like to appreciate u to select such an interesting as well as risky topic.
After reading ur article i just got a thought that in society everytihng thing should be there for its proper and efficient functioning……….. just like if we own a house v look for bedroom,kitchen, drawing room, bathroom……. suppose bathroom is not built properly everyother part of the house will be in bad condition………… just gave an example……
anyways once again i apperciate u and all the best for ur future endeavours……..byeeeeeee
Nikita Anand
9 months ago
Hi Karthik,
Thanks for the appreciation. Your point is not exactly clear. Can you please elaborate it a little more?
Vikas
9 months ago
Hi Nikita,
wonderful article …But i have a question…
After legalizing it , if with time , it becomes a full flourished business then what will stop this young generation of ours to jump into this business ? ( As what matters to today’s generation is just money)
Nikita Anand
9 months ago
Vikas, If the profession gets social and legal approval it won’t be a stigma. The article is about bringing the women in the profession to the main stream. If in future it flourishes as an industry and some youngsters want to join it, they can. What is the problem? It will become a part of entertainment industry.
Decades ago, we had negative attitude towards girls working in film industry. Parents denounced them and relatives criticized them with full might. They were shunned from the society. But what is the scenario today? Parents are ready to do anything to see their kid acting in the movies and TV. Its all about social acceptance and mindset.
piyush
7 months ago
abolutely rightly said Vikas bhai.
karthik
9 months ago
hi nikita……… i just compared bathroom with prostitution in my example ……plz go through it once again……. i guess u will get it now….if u dont get it plz let me know i ll try my level best to explain u……
siddharth
8 months ago
very well written mam,prostitutes are not able to bring a suit,or complain against their middle man or customer,jus because their profession is considered as a social taboo. If you find aa book by gandhi in somebody’s palce,it does nt make him a Gandhian,same way ppl just follow these traditions and morals like driven cattles,but they themselves cannot apply these morals in lives,but always preach about them.
Very nicely written mam.
Sahil Ahmad (JMI, Delhi)
7 months ago
what about case laws,in one case supreme court said that their is an offence of rape, even if a women is of easy virtue.
what we need is police reform(that’s another issue, i know). And propose new legislation that would make it a criminal offence ‘to pay’ to have sex with someone who is “controlled for another person’s gain”.
As simple as that.And yes i believe prostitution can be eradicated from our society. Individual prostitution would alwz be their but organized prostitution poses all the problem. see the situation in UK, now they are terrified by whats emerging out of legalized prostitution. Girl trafficking has increased and hazardous result have surfaced in their society.
their is no doubt prostitutes have human rights. Prostitution is not the last profession left on this planet and if they are forced into it then that’s the area of concern(legalise it or not it will be their).Thus the demand is the prime problem we are facing today. It should be crushed with the legislation abovementioned.
thanks for your attention.
Hati
7 months ago
There is a line in the article which unfortunately is scientifically wrong. The writer writes:
”Legalizing prostitution shall be a primary channel to vent out the sexual energies of men who otherwise content themselves by means of rape and other sexual violations of women in their vicinity.”
This is called the catharsis theory and has never scientifically proven to be right. I quote:
”There is no evidence supporting the theory that prostitution prevents rape. Rape rate statistics
from the U.S. raise the possibility that there may even be a positive association between legal prostitution in Nevada and higher rape rates in that state. The Nevada rate of rape was higher than the U.S. average and it was significantly higher than rates of rape in several more populous
U.S. states – California, New York and New Jersey. Official rape rates in Las Vegas and Reno, Nevada, were significantly higher than rape rates in other U.S. tourist destinations such as New York, Los Angeles, and San Francisco, where prostitution is not legalised.”
”Some social scientists define the purchase of women in prostitution as normal, maintaining that men’s prostitution behaviour is simply part of human nature. This definition of
normalcy is then reflected in public policy that defines prostitution as a form of labour (sex work) where prostitution is considered an unpleasant job but not different from other kinds of unpleasant jobs, like factory work. From this perspective prostituted women are viewed as
“simply another category of workers with special problems and needs” (Bullough & Bullough, 1996). The notion that prostitution is work tends to make its harm invisible.”
Quotes from: Challenging Men’s Demand for Prostitution in Scotland, by Macleod, Farley, Anderson and Golding, 2008.
I am from Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Legalizing prostitution did not benefit the illegal ones trafficked from other countries since they were even more hidden from the police than before the legalization. The reasons written in the article seem very true, but please look into those places where it is legalized and learn from it before legalizing for the same reasons.
atit
7 months ago
I do support this… this will curb all false cases against men..
saurav singh
6 months ago
Dear nikita
first i would like to thank u for writing such a mind blowing article. In our country dere is immense need of for legalising prostitution otherwise the condition of specially rural women cannot be changed. dey are always treated as a shoe of men.i really appreciate ur efforts towards uplifting d conditions of prostitues
Nikita Anand
6 months ago
Dear Saurav,
Thank you for the comment. I am happy that your thoughts on the issue match mine. There are many out there who would oppose this without giving a thought to those poor women.
satyam22
6 months ago
very well written article and the facts are clear in the article, main point is that legalizing prostitute will benifite if it is implemented in the right way , first of all the registration and i card issuing for the proof of identity is necessary, secondry the selling the body right must be only the hand of the individual, who is selling and he must the right whom tosell , and no police intervention must be there and if an client abuses the prositute or not pay her the money she can launch legal actions against him ant earning must belike another trade and it must be taxable
Nikita Anand
6 months ago
You are right Satyam. A proper system must be put in place before we legalize prostitution otherwise things will become worse instead of better.
Rajesh
5 months ago
Sex work should be recognised as a genuine profession as soon as possible.
Let me give some impression:
- All of us have a right to work and make our living with or without sex.
- This profession is not as bad as people think (whats bad in it. Actually it gives chance to two bodies come together and love).
- Because of this being illegal, a sex shop can not be established. Whats wrong if I can go and relax with a girl. This will give her a living and I would be have little relaxation.
- Police and Others goons (in disguise) harass, exploit the girls and sometimes the common people (if they are sitting and smooching each other). These are the people who love it most.
- The pimps make most of it. Look how painful is this. Somebody is selling her body and this fellow is making money free. But no option, she has to get exploited. Fact is these gooons create bad image, and customer dont come because of these goons.
- Sex shops should be allowed as any other shop live cloths, food etc. This will help them a lot and slowly it will become part of life (as its part of body). We stop hating them, but we would find them part of us. Just anohter worker.
- We should be able to learn that sex is integral part of life and our body. We are just because of it. it can not be wrong. If sex was wrong, we and all our parents are wrong.
- When we can have sex at home why not in the market (in a shop).
- When selling / buying a girl is allowed in society in the name of marriage (dowry), sex is better option if someone does not want to marry.
- Lets not judge them. We can not judge anybody unless we are in their position. Just give them freedom. They know whats better for them.
- When we can see sex all around on internet, cds/dvds / movies and hidden rooms, whats harming us from just accepting it.
I think its time to do justice to those girls, their families.
Thanks for this post.
Sudipta Ranjan
5 months ago
Its great to read all the comments and also respect the thinkings too. But one point I want to mention here is – Why these arguments going on? Whether it is right or wrong !! Whether it is good or bad etc.
One thing we need to see before taking any decision or coming into any conclusion. Human being is gifted by a precious thing within, that is – conscience. Conscience talks about what is right or wrong. That shows us the path. It enlightens our thoughts. The first thought which comes in our mind is the voice of the conscience. When we start justifying it, it is our lust, our desire, our want which is influenced due to various reasons and factors.
We always know that extra-marital, pre-marital relationships which includes mental, physical, emotional relationships are not accepted. This includes we don’t accept or the law (Original) doesn’t accept. It’s the conscience which have spoke to us. Now when we try to justify it – it is something different.
We may make law or legalise sex – but we know somewhere in our inner part of our heart that it is WRONG. And WRONG can never become RIGHT.
We know that the people who seek sex outside the boundary of family, are either mentally sick or have a strong sexual desire which he is not able to control. Its like beasts (like dogs and cats) without any thinking ability who indulge in that.
People like us only created a section who are forced to sell their body for a meagre amount of money. Even we pay crores, a girl’s dignity is most precious to her. If she is selling it for money, again it is of lust, greed and lack of morality.
Let’s not argue over this issue but rather see that not a single girl (may be our sister, wife, mother) forced into this short of professsion which our conscience will never accept though it be legalised, accepted or whatever.
Due to this only deadly diseases like “AIDS” and “STD” has cropped up.
Let us dream to see a world which is HEALTHY & BEAUTIFUL and where everybody care for each other so that not a single person will be going into such situation.
Regards
Hitesh
3 months ago
yes…i am completely agree with nikita..because today, when it is not legalized…it prevails in society…daily you can see in the newspaper regarding prostituion..the people indulged in such practices will be indulged always..they are not concerned whether it is legal or not..so better to legalize such thing and another point is..they use their own body..i think it is a democratic country..everyone has right to life…right to enjoy life in their way…what is need of such a provision…if it is, on the basis of morality..then i would like to say…morals also differ from person to person..i know…some peoe lple may not agree with this..but it is..what morality means to me may not means to you…my third supporting statement is as nikita said…prostitutes and their children will get their rights in the society…as like other human beings…
on one side we are adopting modern culture…we say..we are entering in the era og globalization…guys please refer Canada, wales, england, denmark, brazil, israel..n if someone dont know about Sonagachi and Kamathipura…they are the largest red alerts areas in India…in a year..almost 800 prostitutes suffer from AIDS in kamathipura, Mumbai…guys…this is reality…
Nikita Anand
3 months ago
Dear Hitesh,
The points you have put across are pretty valid. The number of prostitutes suffering from AIDS in a single area is astonishing. Legalization would be able get these girls health facilities and stop the disease from spreading further.
Adi
2 months ago
i am agree with this …. Legalise this as soon as possible . I will be helpfull for all speally those who are engage in this job ………….
Rukma Chary
2 months ago
Dear Nikita Anand,
The article is brilliantly written. However, I would like to add something more. Maybe you can term it as reality..Being a law student and associated with NGOs supporting innocent husbands facing false cases filed by wife I am of the opinion, that legalizing prostitution will eventually avoid many matrimonial disputes. Intention or objective of MARRIAGE of most of the men in this techno modern times is only SEX. Because this is the only thing which is not possible other than your partner. Once sexual pleasures are met most of the couple want to part ways. most of the time husbands are the receiving end as we all know LAW favors wife. Many husband who visit our NGO are so disgusted that they started treating “MARRIAGE” is a new form LEgal prostitution..wife files false cases and harasses husbands and only let live them in return of heavy financial package…if prostitution is legalized for both men and women, it will eventually benefit both the sex. In the current times, marriage is any lost it’s values and will only ruining many men’s lives, making prostitution will make things much simpler for everyone. Law should not be static and should compliment the changing times..I support legalizing prostitution for both male and female.
P.R.C
Bangalore
Ian
3 weeks ago
prostitution is a “profession”? Do you call them “sexual service professionals” now? wow.
I firmly disagree with you on this topic.
Why you are not answering Hati and Sajjad who are making valid points?
sajjad: The necessity is not to legalize, but the necessity is to eradicate it.
even if we make it legal, do you think we’d be able to accept them?
1.as Hati posted, this catharsis theory is not right.
2. prostitution is prevalent yet many women get raped.
3. sex is natural and that’s how it should be. I wonder how many whores voluntarily offer themselves. that’s why I see prostitution as a result of dysfunctional monetary system. (reminds me of Bill Hicks- stop putting $ sign on everything)
4.talking about AIDS, it is mostly caused due to carelessness.
5.Tax money: haven’t we stalked up too much tax money in swiss bank?
6. in current scenario, prostitution is still legal (the 6 points that you mentioned leaves enough opportunity for anyone to f*** for money. it just orders that you cant form organisations, unions etc.) we failed to implement these laws.
i learnt a lot from your article. good compilation. I just disagree with your opinion.